As I’ve been traveling across the United States I’ve met and hung out with a lot of couples. Some of them have been ecstatic in their love and admiration for each other. Most of the others, not so much.
Not too many people know this, but occasionally I counsel dudes on relationship issues. Well, to be more accurate, I point them in directions where they can get better help and understanding on the problems they are facing with women.
If you are a man or woman in a relationship, I strongly urge you to check out what I’m about to reveal to you. This can make the difference between you just getting along with your spouse versus treasuring and nurturing each and every day you have with your loved one.
Most people don’t take their relationships to the level of utter bliss. They simply glide along with what’s easy and take each others company for granted.
Remember the excitement and joy when first met your partner? Remember how hot the passion was, and how they were on your mind all the time? You’d do anything just to hang out with them for just another hour or so. You couldn’t shake them from your mind no matter what you tried.
And then, after many months or years that excitement and joy kind of fizzled somehow. Of course you still love your partner, but that scorching flame has somehow ebbed into obscurity. The passion just isn’t there like it used to be.
This is sad. It’s sad because a true Ultimate Relationship should never dwindle or fade away.
Imagine a scenario in which you gained more love, more affection and more admiration each and every day you were with your partner. The joy doesn’t fizzle, it continues to sky rocket with no end in site, even after 5, 10, 15 or 20 years.
I know, I know. Seems like a fairy tale doesn’t it?
I would of thought the same thing before attending Anthony Robbins “Date With Destiny” program. However, after departing that event in Scottsdale in 2008 I left a changed man. That week long event was easily worth a million dollars to me. And had someone asked, I would of signed the check right then for any amount asked.
Fortunately for me, I was a invited guest because I’m really good friends with the son in law of Cloe Madanes. Cloe is a world renown relationship therapist that worked along side Tony on The Ultimate Relationship Program. If I didn’t have the hookup there was no way I’d of forked out the $6000 or so for the event cost. I just couldn’t comprehend how something like this could be worth that much.
Boy was I wrong! Wrong by a long shot.
What saddened me is that this info was something that every person should be able to learn and attain. Unfortunately, the average person does not have an extra $6000, plus air fare, plus hotel expenses laying around for this type of crucial training. I get that.
However, I’d like you to consider… how much does divorce cost? How much does heartache cost? How much does separating your kids from their mother or father cost?
Answer = A hell of a lot more than $6000!
Anyhow, I’m not trying to sell you on going to Date With Destiny in this post. I’ll save that for another day. What I’m trying to introduce you to is a cheaper alternative that will give you a glimpse of what that life changing week was like.
Before I drove over to Scottsdale for the DWD event, I spent an entire week going through a package called “The Ultimate Relationship Program“. Inside this set of DVD’s and audio CD’s there were clips from a previous Date With Destiny event. They dealt with couples going through sensitive issues and showed how Tony helped them to resolve those issues.
Beware: These videos will make you go through 2 or 3 Kleenex boxes. It’s heavy stuff.
Along with the sneak peaks at the Date With Destiny events, Cloe Madanes narrates the clips and pauses to explain Tony’s rationale behind what he does while on stage. It’s incredibly eye opening and really offers some keen insight on how Tony works.
In the videos you’ll learn about basic human needs that we all have, and how to fulfill them with your partner. Once you learn these tools, the sky is the limit. Once you have these skills, you’ll be astonished at how you can evoke pure joy into people’s lives with relative ease. And the best part is, it’s feels great to do so.
My biggest take away from these DVD’s was that it’s 10 times easier to make sure all of yourpartners needs are taken care of than it is to live with a person who is unfulfilled. If that means taking the trash out at 3 am, just fucking do it. It’s no biggie. If that shit makes her happy, just do it. It’s way easier than dealing with the alternative.
The other take away I had was to learn to love all the things about your partner, even the little quirks that may annoy you. You either love them fully, or not at all. There is no halfsies in this game. It’s full on.
I know this may seem like a gigantic task to some men but I promise it is so worth the effort.
So here’s what I want you to do if you are in a relationship that you think could use a little boost or spice. And even if you aren’t in a relationship and think you may want one someday soon, this is for you too.
I want you to check out this video with Tony Robbins and his beautiful wife Sage. They’re offering a Risk Free Trial Offer for their Ultimate Relationship Program.
I honestly think this package is worth thousands and thousands of dollars to anyone who wants to take their relationship to the next level. Do it for your spouse, do it for your family and do it for yourself. Whatever you do, Just Do It.
Trust me, Do It!